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Nancie Kohlenberger Books

2 books·~20 min total read

Nancie Kohlenberger is a licensed marriage and family therapist with expertise in ADHD and relationship counseling.

Known for: The Couple's Guide to Thriving with ADHD, The Couple's Guide to Thriving with ADHD: Strategies for Strengthening Your Relationship and Improving Communication

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Understanding ADHD’s Influence on Relationships

Before we can change how we interact, we must first understand how ADHD alters perception, attention, and emotional regulation. ADHD is fundamentally a brain-based condition, involving dysregulation in neurotransmitters like dopamine and norepinephrine. These chemical imbalances affect motivation, i...

From The Couple's Guide to Thriving with ADHD

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Breaking the Emotional Cycle of Resentment

The emotional cycle that develops in ADHD relationships is remarkably consistent. It usually begins with deep infatuation—the ADHD partner’s intense focus makes the non-ADHD partner feel seen and cherished. Yet, as daily life settles in, that focus breaks, and inattentiveness creeps in where attenti...

From The Couple's Guide to Thriving with ADHD

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Understanding the ADHD Dynamic

In the early stages of love, ADHD’s energy and spontaneity often appear as charisma and passion. The ADHD partner may seem exciting, full of ideas and constant initiative, drawing the non-ADHD partner into a whirl of engagement. Yet over time, what first felt like vitality can become inconsistency. ...

From The Couple's Guide to Thriving with ADHD: Strategies for Strengthening Your Relationship and Improving Communication

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Recognizing the Emotional Impact

Behind the practical chaos of ADHD lie deep emotional wounds—hurt from misread intentions and the slow erosion of goodwill. When communication repeatedly fails, couples begin to construct painful narratives: the non-ADHD partner may quietly believe, 'I don’t matter enough to be remembered,' while th...

From The Couple's Guide to Thriving with ADHD: Strategies for Strengthening Your Relationship and Improving Communication

About Nancie Kohlenberger

Nancie Kohlenberger is a licensed marriage and family therapist with expertise in ADHD and relationship counseling.

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